Category: Dating and Relationships
13 signs that you’re falling in love;
13. You can’t stay mad at him/her for more than a minute or two. You actually have to try hard to stay mad
12. You’ll read his/her IM’s over and over again.
11. You’ll walk really really show while your with him/her.
10. You’ll feel shy whenever you’re with him/her.
9. While thinking about him/her, your heart will beat faster and faster.
8. By listening to his/her voice, you’ll smile for no reason.
7. While looking at him/her, you can’t see other people around you. You can only see that person.
6. You’ll start listening to slow songs.
5. He/She becomes all you think about.
4. You’ll get high just by their smell.
3. You’ll realizw that you’re always smiling to yourself when you think of them.
2. You’ll do anything for him/her.
1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time.
so true! Especially the number 1 thing.
shite...that is good!
Omfg, that was awesome. I have one more sign for girls. U giggle uncontrollably when you think of them sometimes. I just did that as I read.
I love number 1 too - very clever.
Another for guys is that you go shopping!!
Yeah, i like the number one sign too.
I thought of another signs
Since your both getting along really well, the both of you can read each others minds and finish each others sentences.
That hasn't happend with me and my bF yet. lol though, I admit, I do sometimes finish his sentences. lol
Yeh number one was good, but so were a lot of the others. When I fall in love I want to hold them all the time, talk to them on the phone and shop for little gifts for her. I try to find ways to hear her voice as much as I can.
My bf just gave me his work nuber for the first time today. He's never given it to anyone. It's little things like that and written songs and poems that touch me.
Those same signs could apply to a stalker. he he. Hate to rain on the parade but those are ideals but not reality. Most times people don't realize they've fallen in love until they're already there. Sort of like passing out and waking up in that puddle.
Well. I read lots of peoples' IM's over and over again, but I don't think I'm in love with all of them. It's just part of my OCD tendencies, or something. And I prefer slow songs to fast ones anyway, so again, not such a good indicator. Being unable to Think about anything but this one person all the time is, in my book, called obsession, not love, and finally, I don't think I want to be constantly high whenever I'm with the person I love. Kinda detracts from the whole experience, in my humble opinion.
Lol, forgive me, but I'm not fond of things like this. As Nem said, they're ideals, not reality. Reality for puppy love, perhaps, but ...
or probably just infatuation. I know i've been there. There's more to it than those signs that was given from the previous posts. I think what is considered as a sign depends on the person because everyone went and delt with a different situations. It's always different for everyone.
I liked all the signs. I do have someone who I have a crush on, and when he sends me voicemails, I listen to them and save them. Just a heads up, This guy is online. The problem is, he doesn't know thatI love him. How do I tell a man that I love him. For the moment, I'll keep his name anonymous.
The number one sign for us guys, of course, is that our wallet/credit card/checkbook/other forms of financial upkeep just seem to be a million times lighter.
Hmm. Wait. Am I answering to the signs of love or the signs of being robbed? Either way, I'm sure they equate to the same in the end.
Kai
Love robs u blind, so that could work for both at the same time. Sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet. Lol.
Hey, If you decide to tell someone how you feel, make sure that your ready for the consequences. You know very well that not everyone thinks and feels the way you do, so there is a fifty fifty percent chance that he may not think or feel the same way. On the other hand, he might feel the same way too depending on how deep you know of each other. But try not to expect anything from someone because you might be disappointed. It’s cool to have feelings for someone, but before telling that to the other person, wait for the right time, and make sure that your in the same page because if your not, then you’ll just get hurt. What if he was only nice to you because he considers you as one of his friends. You know there’s a lot of possibilities, so, I hope it helps. It’s your choice whether to tell him or not, but if I where you, think about for awhile.
Thanks, I'll do that.
Here's a quote that I know several people use for defining love:
"Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own." -- Robert E. Heinlein
Kai
I love your last post! I can see you're well acquainted with the fairer sex! But that's how we show our love for you men, by takint your money, ahem, I mean love, and shopping with it!
I think the first post should've been entitled 13 reasons why you might have an unhealthy obsession with some poor member of the opposite sex! I agree, these are ideals, but wouldn't life be boring if everything was ideal?
FM
Yup, your right. Life would really be boring if everything you want was given to you.
Who says if evrything one ever wanted was given to them life would be boring. Where's the proof in that? This my friends is a myth. Take for example, Bill gates. Do you think he walks around his large estate going, man, I am soooooo bord? I think not. There is nothing that man couldn't have, heck if he wanted, he could probably have two.
I think this is something people say to make things all better. Lets face it, we work because we want. Who would refuse the things that they wanted on the grounds that, nope, I didn't work for it; I need to ern it? Hey, if it's free, I will take two!
Nem strikes again!
I think it somewhat depends on who you are. Look at the people who are very rich, and still don't seem to be happpy. They have all they could want materially, but it isn't enough. They haven't found something that really makes them happy.
i agree with the previous poster. i also liked the first sign. also another sign that you're falling is that it's not just about sex. you actually spend more of your time hanging out and doing things together.
Is it a bad thing that while reading that entire list, I had a puppy on my mind?
awwww, how cute Alex. lol.
SEVENTEEN:
You look at their profile constantly.
SIXTEEN:
When you’re on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.
FIFTEEN:
You read their Texts and Ims Over and over again.
FOURTEEN:
You walk really slow when you’re
with them.
THIRTEEN:
You feel shy whenever they’re around.
ELEVEN:
When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time.
TEN:
You smile when you hear their voice.
NINE:
When you look at them, you can’t the other people around you, you just see him/her.
EIGHT:
You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them.
SEVEN:
They’re all you think about.
SIX:
You get high just from their scent.
FIVE:
You realize you’re always smiling when you’re looking at them.
FOUR:
You would do anything for them
THREE:
While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.
Because you LIKE them!
TWO:
You were so busy thinking about that person, you didnt notice number twelve was missing
ONE:
You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.
Raaj.
Wow. Where is the irony and biting sarcasm I've come to know and love on this site. You are all goners. Note, however that I am saying this after reading through the darn thing. Gonner that I am, with a bad case of the unrequitted type long after I feel like I should have grown out of this sort of mushy business. However, I would vote for telling over not telling. How *would* you ascertain that someone is definitely on the same page. Telling someone how you feel is at best an opening and at worst flattering. And that's the line you use, tired as it is, if you have to tell someone *you* don't feel the same way. "I'm flattered but I dont' feel the same way". Hopefully you have unburdened your heart to someone with the same grace and honesty. But not to open up means never knowing and possibly passing on a great thing.
omg Raaj, number two is cool, that was right lol!
well all of those peoples where right.
After reading this crap, I have to totally agree with Nem I certainly wouldn't want someone obsessing over me, Most of those things on Casandra's list weren't realistic. It sounded like some silly high school shit.
It's not silly high school shit, Gil... And to whoever thinks hat, can go fuck off. The definition of love is this... Love is when u love someone more than u love yourself. Usually high school relationships are based not on love but on a need to experience things... not all the cases though. I have experienced both wonderful purely loving relationships and the shitty lust ones that r equated with high school boys who think with their dicks rather than with their heads and hearts.